Guide To A Fulfilling Life

Love yourself.

Be humble.
Be a good listener.

Laugh out loud.
Finish school.

Dance.

Fall in love.

Cry, weep, scream.

Respect others.

Walk with confidence.

Ask questions.

 Be good to your parents.

Argue with your siblings. 

 Make-up with your siblings.

Be thoughtful.

Be considerate.

Join a club.

Join a team.

Take a risk.
Conquer your fears.

Read.

Play.

Smile.

Give thanks.

Don't complain.
Think.

Inspire others.

Learn a different language.

Have a best friend.

Carpool.

Ride a bike.
Don't be so gullible.

Swim.
Rinse your face daily.

Be spontaneous.

Don't stress.

Avoid social networking sites.
Don't judge others.

Be responsible.

Own up to your mistakes.

 Have children.

Be attentive.

Be affectionate.

Marry for love.

Hold hands.

Walk barefoot.
Learn to cook.

Cook for others.

Volunteer.
Share.

Join a charity.
 Travel.

Work hard.

Take a break.

Spend time alone.

Take a hike.

Take care of yourself.

Take bubble baths.

Have a drink.
Attend a concert.
Breathe.

Don't hold grudges.

Don't be vain.

Sleep.

Sleep.

Sleep.

Work: The Key to Happiness?

Are you happy? If so, you should attribute that happiness to your employment, at least that's what the Daily Mail states. In the news article "America's Bizarre Secret to Happiness: More Work" published in the Daily Mail the following is reported, "a new study on happiness has shown that those who work longer hours in the U.S. are actually happier." This study reveals a correlation between happiness and work within the American population. 


In my opinion, U.S. employees are the happiest when working because of the deceiving ideology behind the oh-so attainable American dream. Employees believe the American dream is that much more accessible with every paycheck received. Many Americans strive to obtain this dream in order to reach self-fulfillment and utter bliss, but they couldn't be any further from the truth.

Family = Success

Becoming a teen mother at the tender age of fifteen required me to mature very rapidly, but I wouldn't change it for the World. Motherhood has allowed me to challenge myself and discover just how strong I am.

Being solely responsible for another human being has been quite frightening at times, but I've learned, through the help of loved ones and personal mistakes, to take on the responsibility and demands one day at a time.

Being the oldest out of four children can be quite stressful, but rewarding as well. I have always been a "little mother" to my younger siblings. I've helped them confront their fears of holding snakes,

becoming a teen mother,

and graduating high school.

I strongly believe the solid bond I have acquired with both of my parents has contributed to the self-confidence I have built within myself.

My parents constant reassurance, love, patience, and honesty has allowed me to view life through optimistic lenses and take on any obstacle thrown my way.

My family has shaped my values in life and allowed me to measure success, not by the wealth I could achieve, but by the sincere love and support within my family.

My family has indefinitely shaped me into the woman I am today. I am able to express myself freely because of them, while diminishing any form of self-doubt. Now, how much more successful could I be?

Harmony

The cascade's essence as pure as a virgin.

 The breeze a delicate flower. 

Humid, Happy, Hopeful, Holy Harmony.

 

Curiosity

"What would happen if the Earth really came to an end? How can I protect my daughter in order for her to suffer the least amount possible throughout her life? What if there was an active shooter on campus where my daughter attends school?" These are only a sample of questions I constantly ask myself. I have a tendency to imagine an array of worst case scenarios and try to find a solution.

I have always been very fearful of the unknown, but my parents have consistently bestowed upon me bravery, independence, and curiosity. Curiosity has grown with me the most throughout my childhood, adolescence, and now adulthood. Allowing myself to ask questions, regardless of how dumb they may sound, has opened many doors for me, and has prepared me for the unknown.

5 Looks on the Book:

The Giver

Oblivious: The individual's that make up Jonas' community are unaware of the amount of control the authoritative figures have acquired over them all. It's as if the members of the community are pieces to a board game in which the authoritative figures do as they please. 

Serene: Because everyone in Jonas' community is stripped of any sense of individualism there is no threat of rebellion upon them, thus keeping the community tranquil.

Obedient: Everyone living within Jonas' community abides by the strict values of their culture and their norms. There is never any question as to why something is. It simply is. 

Passive: The authoritative figures within Jonas' community have control over what emotions an individual might feel, if any, thus diminishing any chance of uniqueness. Everyone performs quietly as passive members of the community.

Dictatorship: The leading members of Jonas' community execute absolute power and control by sharing the duty at hand. The most minimal and intricate decisions lay in the hands of these citizens.

Optimist

"I see the glass half full."

What Defines Me

Hey there, welcome to my blog! 

• Foremost, I am and always will be a daughter, a sister, and a mother. I come from a very close knit, Mexican family. Much of who I am has been inculcated onto me from a very young age.
  
   
   
  
  

• I am currently a full-time student at the Santa Rosa Junior College. I decided to dedicate more of my time to furthering my education after being released from my previous job.
  

• I am a very goal-oriented person. Setting smaller goals for myself helps me stay patient and focused.
  

• The only sport I have ever enjoyed watching and playing is volleyball. Unfortunately, I am not actively playing, but I make sure to squeeze in some practice time whenever possible.
  
   
   

• Books have been essential in my life. They have increased my comprehension of the English language, being that Spanish is the first language I learned to speak and understand. They have also allowed me to explore the different cultures that make up our World.